I was recently invited to dinner by the producer of a project I had been working on.
After the usual food and wine he then took the diners to a lap dancing club.

I was not bothered by his choice of venue as I had been to these places before but one of our group, a 40ish film editor was most put out. On being approached by one of the Artistes and offered a private performance he hurriedly declined and said that he would prefer a nice cup of tea if that was at all possible!!